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August 13, 2003
My Two Loves

A few nights ago we were driving to get Korean food along Telegraph Avenue in Oakland. I had heard from friends at Ogre Cave that there was a new games and hobbies store in Oakland somewhere around 47th street, near the Temescal Cafe, so we kept an eye out for it.

We passed the corner. "Hey!" I shouted, "!Hey! isn't there anymore! It's been replaced by It's Your Move!"

I never thought this would happen. My loves pitted against each other - fashion versus gaming. !Hey! used to be one of my favorite clothing stores, small, funky, with lots of unusual and cute clothes in my size, run by a sweet Filippino man who also ran a gallery in the back room. When I used to get coffee at the Temescal Cafe every weekend, I'd also be sure to make a stop in the store, chat with the proprietor, and check out what was new in stock. Obviously I didn't go there enough! Because now it's gone, and with it, all the frilled blouses, slim-cut trousers, and floral handbags. Sigh.

I almost didn't want to go into It's Your Move; I felt it would be a betrayal. But Justin conviced me. We wandered in, around eight p.m., and though I think the store was closed, there were young men gathering at tables in the back.

"Okay, so this is a D&D game," I overheard as I pretended to look at an expansion pack for Apples to Apples, "I'll use some third edition rules and some of the new rules. So let's roll up some first-level characters. Three dice, re-roll ones, and throw out the lowest set."

I felt an expanding of warmth in my heart. "You want to play?" whispered Justin. I think he could see the gleam in my eye. I did, indeed. But we were also hungry. "Maybe next time," I whispered back.

We walked out of the store into the evening. I'll have to find my pretty skirts and lovely accessories elsewhere. Luckily, there's an Anthropologie opening up in Emeryville, very soon. And that's not likely to be replaced by a Wizards of the Coast store anytime soon.

I hope.

Posted by jane at August 13, 2003 01:15 PM | TrackBack
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Clothing + RPGs = ...cosplay?

(that reminds me, everybody pester Jane until she puts the photos of the GenCon costume contest up)

Always weird when this sort of thing happens. Reminds me of when the empty storefront next to my Minneapolis game store of choice, Phoenix Games in Uptown, was taken over by a boutique specializing in women's club-wear, bikinis and lingerie. Now there was an odd couple if ever there was one.

walk slow

Posted by: ClockworkGrue on August 13, 2003 03:13 PM

And here a lingere shop got replaced my a church.

Posted by: d8uv on August 14, 2003 04:26 AM

I used to work for Wizards of the Coast. It sucks having such a love for games (Settler's anyone?) and having to push Taboo. I'm not going to knock taboo, but is it really more fun that slaying a Mind Flayer or squashing the rival plantations in Puerto Rico? I doubt it....

I did walk away with many a magic card though...;)

Posted by: Ben TX on August 14, 2003 12:49 PM

ah, Taboo. never played it. played Cranium last night, which was okay. given my dislike of Trivial Pursuit it was surprising that i had a good time playing it. mainly what i displike about those types of party games - gaming lite - is that they lack a strategic component. i like games that reward and encourage long-term strategy play, no matter how silly the game actually is.

Posted by: jane on August 14, 2003 03:44 PM

Exactly....the american board game industry seems hell bent on the player making a fool of herself. They want you to sing or dance or show how little you know. In the German/Euro games I've played there is a sense of respect and the assumption that the players AREN'T morons and that they will make good use of their cunning and genius to prevail. Also there are more games where luck is entirely (or close to) eliminated. The fact that they can do all this and still not end up with chess takes my breath away.

Posted by: Ben TX on August 14, 2003 07:26 PM

For the wide world of board games most folks in the US have never heard of:
http://www.boardgamegeek.com/index.htm

I'm trying to steer strategy and turn-based video game players onto the unwired types of games.

Posted by: chad on August 18, 2003 12:10 PM

Hey there Jane -- I came across your note and was pleasantly surprised. My hubby William and I own It's Your Move Games and Hobbies and I would love to meet you sometime if we can catch one another in the store.

FYI, In about a month or so, I'm going to start a "Macho Chicks with Guns" campaign to get more women into RPGing -- For those who don't know, it's like Charlie's Angels with an extra helping of steroids, although make-up application and running in high heels are defined as "skills" used for the greater good of picking off chauvinist creeps. Sound fun?

Chad: I'm totally with your sentiments... it's time to tune in rather than tune out!

Peace,

Rue

Posted by: Rue on August 26, 2003 11:10 PM

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