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September 11, 2003
How Was That Game?

I'm all in favor of the spread of gaming culture. It's an exciting pleasure when I find someone out in the world that shares my frame of reference for digital play.

Today, though, I had an unsettling experience in this vein -

My credit card company had called asking for verification of a series of unusual transactions (large GGA web hosting bills, 2 plane tickets from United, and a cash withdrawl from a convenience store in NYC). I was on the phone with three different operators explaining that the cash advance had been accidental - I meant to draw out my ATM card, but I must have selected the wrong plastic. I would never use my credit card for cash, so could you please let me pay down that cash withdrawl amount before usurious interest kicks in?

Christopher, a customer service supervisor, couldn't help me with that. But he did tell me how I could change my PIN so I wouldn't use my credit card as an ATM card by accident.

As we were wrapping up our call, he said, "Just one more thing: I'm looking through your transaction history here, and I see you've been playing Star Wars Galaxies. How is that game?"

I was a bit stunned. I gave him a capsule review (appealing game, but though I pay for it I don't have a lifestyle that suits long-term MMOG play - too much travel and other play). He explained that he'd wanted to try SWG, but hadn't yet found the time. There was a lot more I could have said, but somehow I didn't feel much like sharing.

His computer access was broader than mine; he could study my recent financial past. Part of his job is peeking into people's lives all day long; reviewing and discussing transactions with troubled customers. It must be lonely to anonymously study people's potent personal data. I can muster compassion for him now; at the time I felt intruded upon. Even if he did know my spending and gaming habits, I didn't want him to tell me that he knew. His position is inevitable in a society where massive databases track our movements. Perhaps I should have shared in his power with him? I could have asked, "Do you see a lot of online gaming subscriptions?" - mining him for data as he was mining me for opinion and friendship.

Posted by justin at September 11, 2003 04:13 PM | TrackBack
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That's pretty interesting. I'm a very paranoid person, but I probably would have been more elaborate. Mostly just because I'm still getting accustom to the idea that alot of people know what a MMOG is. I remember when EverQuest was released, I would overhear a conversation with something along the lines of "EverQuest? What's that?" or I would see an ad in a popular magazine and it would stun me. Just the fact that there are people in my area that know what a MMOG is. I still can't grasp that yet. So when anybody makes a reference I almost feel encouraged to make it my duty to educate them and encourage them to look into it.

Posted by: Draigon on September 11, 2003 07:58 PM

What's more disturbing to me is that he was able to actually see what you purchased. I mean, do retailers actually report itemized lists of purchases to credit card companies or just the amounts? I'm pretty sure I don't like that idea.

I could see if maybe he saw you made a purchase at EBGames or something and then decided to press you about which games you purchased, but to be able to actually see that you bought SWG seems like a bit more information than a credit card company should be allowed to have.

Posted by: Exick on September 12, 2003 01:56 PM

Hmmm, nevermind. I see now that he saw the monthly fee for the SWG subscription, not the actual purchase of the game. My mistake.

Posted by: Exick on September 12, 2003 01:59 PM

Ummmm, I don't mean this in a mean way, but it sounds to me like you're overreacting. You were talking to somebody whose JOB it is to look at your transaction history. It's not like the guy at Burger King was asking you about it. Also, It's a bit of an overstatement to say that he could study your recent financial past. In reality, all he could see was a string of credit card transactions. He didn't know your bank balance. He didn't know where your plane tickets went to. In fact, he probably didn't even know that you bought plane tickets, just that United charged you for something.

He was making an attempt to be a human, rather than a faceless customer service flunky and I think that's something that shouldn't be taken for granted. I think what's unsettling you isn't that he could see your finances, it's that somebody you never met was having a personal conversation with you rather than reading their script. An all-to-rare occurence these days.

Anyway, how is this any different than a friend seeing your statement laying out on the table and asking you?

Posted by: 5000! on September 12, 2003 02:51 PM

That is a bit unsettling, but I guess it is an inevitable part of our world. Strangely, I'm glad that I don't personally know the person thats reading my credit card statements...

Posted by: Mystery Shopper on September 12, 2003 03:14 PM

Our perceptions of what is private often lags far behind reality. It is this lag that makes fighting new invasions of privacy so difficult. In this case the operator should not have revealed that he was looking at Justin's personal financial information even though it's not a surprise that he was doing so.

Posted by: kevin D. white on September 12, 2003 03:56 PM

Reminds me of that little incident at an airport where a luggage checker, finding an anti-war placard inside of a passenger's suitcase, found it necessary to slip in a little note that said, "Don't appreciate your anti-American attitude!"

Yeah, and even if (if!) privacy loss is the price we must pay for security, we don't appreciate your being an invasive jackass, jackass. I'm talking to the luggage guy, of course, should he be catching up on his gaming literature.

Posted by: tony on September 12, 2003 06:34 PM

I kind of agree with 5000! It must suck to have a job like his, he saw a chance to strike a small chat with someone that shared similar interests.

Maybe it wasn't correct to do it when he was working, and had access to priviledged information about you.

Posted by: Jesse on September 12, 2003 09:48 PM

It's not that people have access to your private information, it's how they use that information. I was in an Apple Store and the technicians looked up my support record, noticed I owned a Cube and asked me if I still owned it, and if I liked it. I wasn't the least bit offended; we engaged in a conversation about that unique computer. If the Department of Homeland Security reviewed my financial and Apple support record without a warrant or with a meritless warrant and called to ask me just what I'd been doing with my computer, I'd be outraged.

Abuse of authority is dangerous, but casual, courteous mention of a common interest based on information you both have access to is called socializing. If the above referenced note-in-the-luggage incident actually occurred, that's a gross abuse of an authority position. The line is drawn between being courteous and friendly rather than rude or threatening. If the guy had slipped a note in the bag in support of the antiwar movement, I suspect the bag's owner would have been, if not happy, at least not angry. Unfortunately, it boils down to moral relativism: if you can be nice about it, no problem; if you are going to use the information to admonish someone, hold your tongue.

However, it should be noted that the ethics of many professions would prohibit mention of personal information, whether or not the agent of that profession was friend or foe.

Posted by: san on September 13, 2003 03:34 AM

It's not that people have access to your private information, it's how they use that information. I was in an Apple Store and the technicians looked up my support record, noticed I owned a Cube and asked me if I still owned it, and if I liked it. I wasn't the least bit offended; we engaged in a conversation about that unique computer. If the Department of Homeland Security reviewed my financial and Apple support record without a warrant or with a meritless warrant and called to ask me just what I'd been doing with my computer, I'd be outraged.

Abuse of authority is dangerous, but casual, courteous mention of a common interest based on information you both have access to is called socializing. If the above referenced note-in-the-luggage incident actually occurred, that's a gross abuse of an authority position. The line is drawn between being courteous and friendly rather than rude or threatening. If the guy had slipped a note in the bag in support of the antiwar movement, I suspect the bag's owner would have been, if not happy, at least not angry. Unfortunately, it boils down to moral relativism: if you can be nice about it, no problem; if you are going to use the information to admonish someone, hold your tongue.

However, it should be noted that the ethics of many professions would prohibit mention of personal information, whether or not the agent of that profession was friend or foe.

Posted by: san on September 13, 2003 03:35 AM

Maybe some customer relations manager made this their new policy: chat with the customers about their purchases to appear more friendly. It would be a bad idea, as shown by the reactions here.

I don't see how you can ever consider any purchase on a credit card to be private

Posted by: Carl on September 13, 2003 04:27 PM

Crossing the Threshold.

"How was the food at Dimitrio's Pasta House? Is it worth a visit?"

"Did you have a good trip to Europe?"

"You know, you seem to be spending a lot of time at the bars. Maybe you should consider cutting down."

"Wow, you sure are paying for a lot of perscriptions. How is the Zoloft working out for you? Is it making you feel better?"

"I see that you've been ordering the back catalogue of Girls Gone Wild. How do you like them? Any good sex scenes?"

Posted by: Snowmit on September 14, 2003 07:25 AM

Dunno if you read all your comments, but there's a book for you. Excellent novel.

It's called Idoru, by William Gibson. One of the main characters is a "researcher" that wades through bills, credit records, and all the electronic records that we leave behind as we go through modern life.

It's in the middle of the "Bridge" trilogy (Virtual Light - Idoru - All Tomorrow's Parties) but it stands on its own.

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